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UK, GLOUCESTERSHIRE - The Most Intimate & Joyful Loving Ongoing Training, Joy Hicklin-Bailey, Module 1 of a 6 module training which ends New Year 2016-17, 22 May 2015

Realise that you are Love
Relate with joy to what is, here now, in you, in your opposite, in life
Discover profoundly opening sexual healing, ritual, initiation & sensual massage
Learn how you can create more intimacy, delight & infinite pleasure in your loving & relating, whatever your lifestyle
Em-body Soul in your ordinary, miraculous life
Rediscover the magic, the sacred, the joy, the aliveness of your sexuality
How will you benefit? This group is for you if you wish to........

ealise deeply the freedom and consciousness to say and mean no or yes in any situation and express your vulnerable heart’s truth without blame or reactivity
Learn fluidity of emotional expression, your body, feelings and being an instrument for life to play
See your limiting patterns, such as withdrawal, self-sacrifice, numbness, rescuing, control clearly and find creative ways to return to relating with unconditionality
Learn how to love and accept yourself, heal old sexual and relationship wounds and hurts, as without this you cannot learn to love others unconditionally
Learn to communicate clearly, successfully, about your inner experiences without making another responsible for your doubts, opinions, fears, commitment phobia, self-judgements
Value aliveness in all its colours, without resistance, in intimate relationship and all relationships
Learn to make and keep and renegotiate clear agreements that nourish all involved
Experience the essence of your nature and deepen your level of trust in it each moment of your life, whatever your chosen lifestyle and relating style
Gain clarity about who you are and what you need in relation to others and how to stay clearly connected with your own simple beingness as well as staying open and available to other, seeing and befriending all that gets in the way of that
Open to and celebrate your natural sensitivity and innocence, free yourself into playful, joyful, loving relating, realise full permission to be in total pleasure
Learn to stay centred when your wounds are triggered—and love others in their own wounds and blind spots
Awaken vital healing energy through the senses and, make sensuality and sex a full bodily experience
Learn the intelligence of the subtle energy body and the chakras and experience rejuvenating, healing energetic exchange with a partner
Mark and celebrate a transition in your life. Create harmonious balance in your life.
Create a deep friendship with your own sex and be nourished by their support and celebration of the man you are, the woman you are
Receive life-transforming initiations into pleasure and profound connection
Grow the connection between your nature, child spirit, heart and soul, learn to live organically
Learn how to create more intimacy, delight and pleasure in your loving while you are supported by the holding and intimacy of the circles and structures
Rediscover the depth, the magic, the sacred, the joy, the aliveness of your senses and sexuality and the innocence of your opposite
Know how to re-kindle or retain passion in long-term love
Harness the dynamic power of your sexual energy and how to relax in high arousal, the oceanic surrender which comes from loving, relaxed union and the total presence of the other
Tune in to male and female energy in nature, yourself, others and in lovemaking. Enjoy and the beautiful differences and understand the dynamics of sexual energy relationships and intentions
Transform every day stress into sexual vitality and increase sensitivity, enjoyment of your body, stamina and fulfilment
Learn the secret arts of tantric touch and being touched and spiraling arousal, relax and surrender in states of high arousal
Celebrate god and goddess in the other and learn how to freefall into the truth of the oneness beyond these polarities
Realise on a cellular level that sex and spirit are one. Let go into love, the essence of life
Discover profoundly opening sexual healing initiation ritual and intimate sensual massages which will enhance your sexual life forever
Learn the vital importance of connecting consciousness, love and sex and how to bring them together, so you can experience a powerful and miraculous transformation that will bring you enhanced charisma, magnetism and happiness. You can change your daily life into something beautiful.
Learn how closely spiritual ecstasy and sexual bliss are connected and how this energy can be harnessed to open your third eye so you always know what is right for you.
Know where you’re leaking your sexual energy away.
Find out how to avoid the big mistakes that most people make with their sexual energy and sex life that can cause unseen, silent harm to your health, your relationships, your career and even your bank account.
Attract the right lovers or the perfect long-term soul mate
See clearly how your sex life can define your relationships - both are mutually connected, and one can’t exist without the other.
Learn how to harness and transmute your inner sexual energy and to transform it into the things that you most desire.
Discover how to experience a FULL body orgasm, the real way to achieve it in a short period of time, and why they’ transform your daily life.
Because this training affects your whole energy field, you will empower your professional and entrepreneurial skills and gain a massive boost in your motivation and success at work.
Joy is such a world class profoundly effective facilitator that several renowned relationship teachers go to her to solve their love issues.
Ask yourself honestly - were you taught the fundamentals of love and male-female energetics as you grew up - have you spent your life so far trying to work out what not to do through your mistakes and maybe heartbreaking losses? Or have you compromised or given up or hardened yourself?

Do I have to be or do anything particular in my participation?

How you participate is totally up to you. You are supported throughout in being in the structures and experiences in the way that feels true to you. A tender, safely held course, this is a sacred space and nurturing environment in which your privacy and confidentiality are protected . All personal boundaries, which are core, are honoured and respected. No physical contact and no nakedness is appropriate if you wish, so you are safe and free to explore and find your freedom to be you, in love.

Joyful Loving brings you a series of carefully guided intimate encounters with the beauty of the body, your longings and desires, the free flow of your feelings and sensitivities. It shows you how it is possible to heal what limits intimacy, let go of any fears and judgements that keep you separate from a deeper loving connection with yourself and others and open into more satisfying ways of relating and creating pleasure.

What will you experience, what will you learn and how will that benefit you and your life?

You will learn more effective communication, the power of vulnerable honesty, more friendship with ‘the other’. This work is for those who seek self -realisation or indeed simple happiness. There will be lots of laughter!

You will learn deeply to enjoy your desire for intimate contact, in all its moods, to know and honour your personal boundaries in any moment by moment situation, and to communicate these clearly.

Our alchemical work will include the most powerful meditations, guided structures, communication skills and secrets, work with the breath, sensitive exploration, wakening and healing of the energy centres of the body, conscious movement of energy in the body. dance, transpersonal and depth psychology, compassionate communication approaches, leading edge evolutionary work for awakened man and woman.

There will be intimate sharing in pairs and small groups, to mark and acknowledge, so that there is a deeper and deeper acceptance and love for the life that flows in you and for the insights and openings. The openings happen the more you learn a willingness to engage with what is, now.

Open sharing in our large circle opens your heart allowing trust, confidence and sensitivity. Men and women will spend some time separately with their own sex, sharing and growing into deep friendship with the man they are, the woman they are, deeply resourced not only for relating but for all of life.

There will be ritual and ceremonies, and life changing initiations in some modules, catalysing and celebrating your man or woman, your being. Deep freedom, consciousness and choice about your experience and expression of sexual energy arises. To love and allow one’s nature is to commit to a life of love and spirit.

In the deeper circle work, your body, your feelings, your energy and your nature as man or woman is gradually freed of the rejecting judgements, wounds, performance anxieties, assumptions and dilemmas you may have accumulated from your culture, parents, peers, partners.

Guilt is transformed into inspiration and possibility; fear becomes excitement; judgements are replaced by gratitude, ugliness or disgust becomes grace, wounds become resources, frustration becomes playfulness, control melts into heart opening.

You will learn and realise in the cells of your body how sex holds enormous potential for healing and spiritual growth as well as being an everyday source of simple pleasure. You will experience and enjoy how alchemy happens when polarities meet with consciousness and the result is beauty, the nectar of soul.

With increased vitality, more sensuality, depth of feeling and open hearted acceptance of how life touches you now, you are more available for those you partner or befriend or offer service to. So you reclaim the life force which is your birthright.

This course is an opportunity to receive sacred knowledge that will give you specific techniques and heightened awareness to enrich your sexual life and make your ordinary life, every moment,an ecstasy.

Through this alchemical work, intimate relating can become a way in to spirit, an invitation to relax into openness, fully present to sensation-al life. Learn to truly relax into loving, intimate, and authentic ways of being that can be deeply heart-opening, sexually erotic, or both and more...whether in a committed loving relationship or in your wider friendships.

Old survival patterns which can lead to pain and difficulty in relationship, and sabotage intimacy, dissolve when you know how how to enhance energy and dive into presence . Joyful integration of earth and spirit, body and soul, our own male and female energy happens for you. Loving heals.

As we journey deeper, we will share potent esoteric skills, energetic practices and intimate massage approaches to enhance pleasure and promote emotional and physical healing through the body.

You will experience powerful structures that will cleanse energy channels, awaken and harness the power of your sexual circuitry, so that your sexual energy, transmuted by love, can heal and release your body, and enhance its capacity for pleasure. You will also learn how to do this for a partner.

Realising this way of being through your physical body and the feelings, through the sensual and the erotic, the natural rhythms of desire and relaxation, expansion and contraction, with consciousness, is a beautiful doorway into the largeness and essential goodness of life. And always the underlying truth of awareness seeing through the stories, allowing freedom to unveil itself, is the context.

This work is innocent and beautiful, full of healing, love, truth, intimacy and celebration of the one life we have been given to enjoy. The ongoing group can lead us into real friendship with and acceptance of those limiting patterns - in ourselves and others - and into an opening beyond them..

The passion, pleasure, love and healing power that is your birthright is extraordinary. Celebrate the vibrant, sexual being you are! This work is essential discovery for those who seek self -realisation or indeed simple happiness.

A powerful ongoing circle is gathering already, in which deep nourishment and spiritual support can be found. It is a great venue amidst beautiful countryside, with nourishing food, so that we can relax into this work of waking up the body, expressing the longings of the heart and creating deep intimate connection and surrender. This is an invitation to open and celebrate being…..Book now as places are strictly limited

....Then there is the food, the meditations, music, maybe dancing, and time to relax in the hot tub and enjoy the beautiful Glastonbury/Welsh/Gloucestershire countryside. Book your place now, the rewards for your life are immense.

Working with Joy has been very useful & rewarding for me, especially to reclaim myself as a sexual woman, to have permission to explore asking for what I would like and how to do that, to gain a much clearer understanding of the biological, energetic& psychological differences between men & women, all in safely held (though sometimes personally challenging) situations.

Intimacy is a main focus of the work; it is never about performance but about presence, integrity, truth and honouring (self, especially). Having said that I have learned a lot of practical information & skills.

Carole Clements, Bathford

What will an ongoing group give me?

There is nothing as potent for your life as the magic of an ongoing group...the intimacy that builds, along with the trust, insights, the courage and friendship that evolve when you know you are together over time, the incredible adventures, are irreplaceable and priceless. Because we can work deep, and because there is the safety of close bonding and the pleasure of community, you can open and resolve your deepest, core issues.

There is a constant bridge with your everyday life because the modules are well spread out, allowing integration, but there is ongoing contact, if desired, with the e-group and socially. As each module includes a weekend, time taken off work is limited to what is practical, allowing this journey to fit in easily with other committments.This is an excellent experiential training in trusting your beingness, finding your presence, celebrating the gifts that are yours and then anything you go on to do in your life you will do with presence and joy. Joyful Loving is for those who wish to invest in their long term happiness and freedom.. For you if you enjoy a vibrant community and a rare, shared opportunity to live your wildness, connect, be broken open by another’s vulnerability, play, say what you have never dared say, to be surprised, to find your edge, to celebrate being you.

Is your relating empowered and juicy? Do you live all of you or do you live from the waist or neck up? An opening of your heart, enlightenment of all your experiences and freedom of being, an opening to the vastness of Man or Woman, can be yours.

Words can't express the experiences I've had through you and the awakening that's happened....my experience of life is so totally different from 18 months ago I feel reborn, a different person. I'm more grateful than I can express ..... After the blissful experience of the final structure, "I" was a swirling cloud of energy in a peaceful harmonious sea of perfection. (Yes I can't find words to describe it!) Now I'm feeling very peaceful about everything Neal Thornton, Chiswick‘

2 things I loved this module - Joy speaking of humility..And the way I seemed to absorb through my skin without knowing it was happening until I come back to my life … Deepening union with my lover Surahbhi McMellahn Ashburton

This will be deeply intimate work and needs maturity and sensitivity. Participants need to have some introductory experience of establishing boundaries, and respecting those of others, or of working with sexual energy or tantra, or of working with Joy (unless you are attending with your partner who has experience of any of these) - please call to discuss if you are new to Secret Garden work.

Single participants are welcome. This work is also highly suitable for couples who may be together in all structures, or whenever they choose. Participants of past ongoing Joyful loving groups have experienced openings, healings, breakthroughs they had no idea were possible.

How blessed I am to be privileged over and over to be in circles with those who value presence, the intimate life, the flow of feelings. Those who come to trust and deeply value the circle’s profound balance between individual needs and journeys unfolding, and community ever new and alive, the integral connection between body and spirit, those who enjoy and care for the surrender to male and female aliveness, nature, the rhythms of simple pleasure, lots of belly laughter, silence and deep exploration. I so look forward to working with you in this powerful circle. Your time is now! Call us!

It is only when your whole being opens that the not knowing of intimacy and presence arises and you can and fully receive the deep mysteries of erotic, sacred, sexual loving. The art of love is learned, and very rarely taught.

If you open through learning relate with awakeness and sensitivity, and engage in love with existence, as you expand consciousness enough, in your sensual and sexual loving, beyond your personality limitations, there is a doorway to energetic freedom, an ecstatic, totally alive beingness where separation dissolves and healing of limited perspectives and hurts happens; you can touch the deepest mysteries of existence, beyond life’s normal boundaries. Then life and relating becomes rich as you experience everything in ordinary life differently.

If you take your place in this Joyful Loving ongoing group you will realise a profound affirmation and celebration of your nature, your sexuality and sensuality and enjoy it with playfulness, tenderness, consciousness, compassion, integrity, innocence and joy.

This ongoing group serves your highest potential in human beingness. Its theme is one that involves us all. The passion, pleasure, love and healing power that is your birthright is extraordinary. Discover or rediscover and celebrate the vibrant, sensual, sexual being you are, why wait?

Thank you. Thank you. I really feel how much you see that you don't always voice but you notice & give space to what is needed. Sometimes there is a growth in not having something offered on a plate but having the space to reach out for it oneself & I see you give us each that space as I also see you reach out so tenderly to each of us when we really need it.

When I think of how terrified I was of any major structure & choosing partners when I first came to Secret garden & I think of yesterday when there was the choosing of partners, I can see how far I have come in my journey. Yesterday after all the couples had chosen I listened into myself about all the men sitting there & I could honestly say that of those men sitting there left I could have opened my heart & done the structure with any of them despite feeling more connected with some than others. That feels such a difference to when I used to sit waiting in dread. So in one sense yesterday you gave me a gift by making me go last. I have never felt so okay with being last to choose. I feel that I am so much more able to be with myself now.

What I have learnt & experienced on Secret Garden has helped me immensely with my relationship with my partner & I realised that what I have learned & experienced with my partner helped me this weekend to be more in myself.

I was thinking about what my learnings this weekend were & they would be about recognising my womanhood more, that I begin to really feel that I have some attractiveness, some impact, some presence. I might have understood with my head that before …but I feel as if I am only just beginning to absorb this with my body…I am holding it stronger in myself & can feel it just for me now not simply in relation to my partner.

It all makes me feel more adult, more grounded, more open to what is & what might be & more trusting. It gives me more perspective. It feels like the beginning of me finding my “no” & choosing what feels right for me, not only what is right for the other. I know that I need to find more of my anger, my roar. I still shudder & immediately feel fear in the face of anger & maybe that's okay but I need to love my own more. I need to let go of the fear that if I am truly myself in all my power then I will be too much … I am getting closer to this & taking small risks all the time.

Thank you for all you have given me. May
This group is filling fast so book now - just call or email us - Couples and singles -re-awaken intimacy and aliveness. If you join us in this sacred circle now you can still catch the early booking discounts. Excellent value, world-class facilitation.

This is a wonderful present for your loved one or yourself!
And you can receive couple/friend discounts too.

I was waiting for this Secret Garden work all my adult life. We know how to love each other since committing to the series of workshops with you. And Joyful Loving brought beauty and ecstacy back to our connection. It was an initiation into all the depths of being a woman for me, and for John an initiation in to fully being a man

Gabrielle S.,

Kings Lynn


Realise deeply the freedom and consciousness to say and mean no or yes in any situation and express your vulnerable heart’s truth without blame or reactivity
Learn fluidity of emotional expression, your body, feelings and being an instrument for life to play
See your limiting patterns, such as withdrawal, self-sacrifice, numbness, rescuing, control clearly and find creative ways to return to relating with unconditionality
Learn how to love and accept yourself, heal old sexual and relationship wounds and hurts, as without this you cannot learn to love others unconditionally
Learn to communicate clearly, successfully, about your inner experiences without making another responsible for your doubts, opinions, fears, commitment phobia, self-judgements
Value aliveness in all its colours, without resistance, in intimate relationship and all relationships
Learn to make and keep and renegotiate clear agreements that nourish all involved
Experience the essence of your nature and deepen your level of trust in it each moment of your life, whatever your chosen lifestyle and relating style
Gain clarity about who you are and what you need in relation to others and how to stay clearly connected with your own simple beingness as well as staying open and available to other, seeing and befriending all that gets in the way of that
Open to and celebrate your natural sensitivity and innocence, free yourself into playful, joyful, loving relating, realise full permission to be in total pleasure
Learn to stay centred when your wounds are triggered—and love others in their own wounds and blind spots
Awaken vital healing energy through the senses and, make sensuality and sex a full bodily experience
Learn the intelligence of the subtle energy body and the chakras and experience rejuvenating, healing energetic exchange with a partner
Mark and celebrate a transition in your life. Create harmonious balance in your life.
Create a deep friendship with your own sex and be nourished by their support and celebration of the man you are, the woman you are
Receive life-transforming initiations into pleasure and profound connection
Grow the connection between your nature, child spirit, heart and soul, learn to live organically
Learn how to create more intimacy, delight and pleasure in your loving while you are supported by the holding and intimacy of the circles and structures
Rediscover the depth, the magic, the sacred, the joy, the aliveness of your senses and sexuality and the innocence of your opposite
Know how to re-kindle or retain passion in long-term love
Harness the dynamic power of your sexual energy and how to relax in high arousal, the oceanic surrender which comes from loving, relaxed union and the total presence of the other
Tune in to male and female energy in nature, yourself, others and in lovemaking. Enjoy and the beautiful differences and understand the dynamics of sexual energy relationships and intentions
Transform every day stress into sexual vitality and increase sensitivity, enjoyment of your body, stamina and fulfilment
Learn the secret arts of tantric touch and being touched and spiraling arousal, relax and surrender in states of high arousal
Celebrate god and goddess in the other and learn how to freefall into the truth of the oneness beyond these polarities
Realise on a cellular level that sex and spirit are one. Let go into love, the essence of life
Discover profoundly opening sexual healing initiation ritual and intimate sensual massages which will enhance your sexual life forever
Learn the vital importance of connecting consciousness, love and sex and how to bring them together, so you can experience a powerful and miraculous transformation that will bring you enhanced charisma, magnetism and happiness. You can change your daily life into something beautiful.
Learn how closely spiritual ecstasy and sexual bliss are connected and how this energy can be harnessed to open your third eye so you always know what is right for you.
Know where you’re leaking your sexual energy away.
Find out how to avoid the big mistakes that most people make with their sexual energy and sex life that can cause unseen, silent harm to your health, your relationships, your career and even your bank account.
Attract the right lovers or the perfect long-term soul mate
See clearly how your sex life can define your relationships - both are mutually connected, and one can’t exist without the other.
Learn how to harness and transmute your inner sexual energy and to transform it into the things that you most desire.
Discover how to experience a FULL body orgasm, the real way to achieve it in a short period of time, and why they’ transform your daily life.
Because this training affects your whole energy field, you will empower your professional and entrepreneurial skills and gain a massive boost in your motivation and success at work.
Joy is such a world class profoundly effective facilitator that several renowned relationship teachers go to her to solve their love issues.
Ask yourself honestly - were you taught the fundamentals of love and male-female energetics as you grew up - have you spent your life so far trying to work out what not to do through your mistakes and maybe heartbreaking losses? Or have you compromised or given up or hardened yourself?
If you long for......
Awakeness to the love that you are and a transforming of all your relating as a result
Increased self-awareness about how your patterns limit love and how to free yourself
The courage & trust to take risks & show up fully & authentically
A heightened sense of joy & ecstasy in your everyday life
Heightened sensitivity to your body's wisdom and energetics
A deep let go into surrender
Depth of presence in your meetings
Fluidity and flow in communication & freedom from blame & criticism in your relationship
Deeper connection & intimacy with your partner
Passion, tenderness, vibrancy & aliveness in your life & relationships ..........then make it happen -seize the day,

Enjoy happy relating, conscious lovemaking, sex meeting spirit
A 6 module ongoing training, Somerset & Gloucestershire
How to Book
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I feel like a goddess, at one with nature, women, men, life, this should be taught to everyone

Sarah Allen, Cambridge


You are a gorgeously juicy couple and your willingness to risk all to share your love and joy with us is profoundly inspiring. I’m living more of who I am...on my knees full of gratitude and love to you both. Challenging myself to be fully a man in the presence of a true woman

Robert Taylor,

Ipsach, Switzerland

Joy creates a strong supportive environment to explore and accept the full spectrum of being human

Carole Clements, Bath

I associated sexual intimacy with guilt, but now feel that my "woman" has been healed and unleashed!

The great love you have for us, the knowledge and experiences you share are a rare, beautiful and incredible gift. The gratitude I have for you both comes from the bottom of my heart, you are a VERY special couple.
Susan Coyne, Lancs

Exquisitely beautiful, we are so in love after so much struggle, deeper and deeper every day

Maggi Stevens,

Norwich

Darling Joy, thank you so much for the divine work you did at Joyful Loving…the effect of that work spreads to the whole world. amazing!

Stephanie Lister, London


  • Category : Tantra
  • Start Date : 22-05-2015
  • End Date : 25-05-2015
  • Facilitator : Joy Hicklin-Bailey
  • Time : 7pm Fri eve to 3pm Tues afternoon
  • Address : Module 1 of a 6 module training which ends New Year 2016-17
  • Contact Name : Joy Hicklin-Bailey
  • Contact Email : joy1@secretgarden.eu.com
  • Contact Phone : +447866470238
  • Pricing Details : Special rate for Sound Forum if booked by Feb 19 9 £79 per day
  • Website : http://www.secretgarden.eu.com/joyfulloving.html
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